Letting Go

Letting Go

  • To let go doesn't mean to stop caring.
    It means I can't do it for someone else.
  • To let go is not to cut myself off.
    It is the realization that I cannot control another.
  • To let go is not to enable.
    It is allowing learning from natural consequences.
  • To let go is to admit powerlessness.
    The outcome is not in my hands.
  • To let go is not to try to change or blame another.
    I can only change myself.
  • To let go is not to care for another.
    It is to care about another.
  • To let go is not to judge.
    It is allowing another to be a human being.
  • To let go is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes.
    It is allowing others to effect their own outcome.
  • To let go is not to be protective.
    It is to permit another to face reality.
  • To let go is not to deny.
    It is to accept.
  • To let go is not to nag, scold or argue.
    It is to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
  • To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires.
    It is to take each day as it comes and cherish the moment.
  • To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone.
    It is to try to become what I dream I can be.
  • To let go is not to regret the past.
    It is to grow and live for the future.